Chivalry is dead? Not yet!!

Chivalry began as the rules and customs of medieval knighthood, went on to mean chivalrous acts or gallant deeds. Today chivalry is dead as the good and gallant customs of men toward women has been lost or abandoned by men. Some guys blame women and the rise of the feminist culture for it, but I don't agree with any of them.

It doesn't take a Harvard MBA to open and close car doors. What it does take, however, are seemingly desirable qualities. Go out to any attraction location and the first thing you should do is be gentle and wear a warm smile. It can do much more then all the colognes you use. 

I'll be out there talking to you about the Venusians’ art and will be sharing interesting success stories of me and my close wing-men. When you open your mind, stop striving so hard, and leave yourself open to experience, you wind up finding something you never expected.

I’ll try and dig deep into our real world interaction with women and will try to explain the science and psychology that drives them. An assumption that people often make is that any pick-up technique that actually works well must be manipulative at some level. It’s amazing how many people, both male and female, believe this. In my experience, men believe this much more than women do. But whether or not a pick up technique is manipulative really boils down to the difference between manipulation and motivation. 

I’ll be back shortly with some insights on approach anxiety and openers (don’t want to bore you guys with theory) but they can’t be ignored. The paralysis of approach anxiety can feel like a disease, as if you have a mental illness for experiencing it. Just to give a prelude let me tell you that being anxious is good for you.

Think, believe, act and stay anxious. You will definitely enjoy the ride and I’ll be along sharing your successes.